Sleeping Next to a Snoring Partner? Here's How to Out sleep the Giant
Let’s be honest… we love our partners. But when it’s 2:37 AM and their snoring sounds like a freight train dragging a chainsaw, the love starts to wear a little thin.
If you're sleep deprived and desperate, you’ve probably tried the classic "gentle nudge," passive-aggressive sigh, plugging their nose, or even moving to the couch. Been there. Done that.
Good news: I’ve found some tried-and-true products that actually help. Below are my ride-or-die sleep aids that make sharing a bed with a snorer more bearable, and they’re subtle enough not to disrupt your bedtime vibe.
1. Loop Earplugs – Quiet, Comfortable, and Surprisingly Stylish
These are not your foam from the airplane earplugs. Loop Earplugs are minimalist, reusable, and super effective at dulling low-frequency snoring without making you feel like you're underwater.
Why I love them:
Comfortable enough to wear all night
Reduces snoring noise without blocking everything
Sleek enough that they don’t scream "I'm in survival mode"
https://amzn.to/3UReuUF ($69.95)
2. Sound Machine – White Noise is the MVP
I didn't believe in white noise until I used it to drown out nightly growling from across the bed. A sound machine creates a soothing backdrop (waves, rain, or plain static) that helps your brain tune out your partner’s “symphony.”
Why I love them:
Multiple sound options
Volume control
A timer or overnight setting
https://amzn.to/4mhK0Y7 ($46.99)
3. Magnesium – Relax Your Muscles and Your Mood
Turns out, magnesium deficiency is linked to poor sleep quality and stress. I started drinking a magnesium tea (or taking a supplement) about an hour before bed, and the quality of my sleep improved noticeably, even if snoring still happened.
Why I love it:
Calms the nervous system
Helps relax muscles
May reduce restlessness and midnight wakeups
Any brand works but I personally love these ones: https://amzn.to/3J6OfXV ($24.95)
4. Sleep Mask: Block the World, and the Blinking Clock
When you’re dealing with noise, the last thing you need is light pollution from your phone, the hallway, or your partner’s 2AM bathroom trip.
A good sleep mask helps you fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer. I swear by mine now, and you might too, especially paired with earplugs.
Why I love them:
Adjustable strap
Breathable fabric
Contoured design (so your lashes aren’t smushed)
https://amzn.to/4m1Kodb ($65)
Snoring might not be going away anytime soon, but your lack of sleep doesn’t have to stick around either. With the right tools and a bit of trial and error, you can find peace, even while your partner saws logs next to you.
Try one (or all) of the recommendations above and see what works best for your sleep style.
Because yes… you can love your partner and protect your REM cycle.
Jeanne
The Curated Life